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John J D Munn's avatar

Listening is a skill - hard to master, but one of the most important and valuable skills we have

I particularly like this tip by Mochary to improve active listening:

Confirm that you heard them correctly by saying, "I think I heard you say …" Summarise what they said or wrote. Then say, "Is that right?" If they say, "Yes," you are done.

If they say, "Not quite," ask them to repeat it until you can summarize it correctly.

Once you have correctly summarized what they said, you can even go deeper by asking, "Is there more?"

It really helps the person feel heard and improve your own listening.

You can find out more about that here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1NiCEEUO2-38pIVGM7nrnpGRykbbtv2xuqLoKW50ZzLw/edit?usp=sharing

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